I wanted to add something to the top of all of my posts about birth because it is such a personal topic for so many.
The most important thing I want to express is that I'm never here to pass judgement. I've seen birth in many different settings, with many different caregivers and have formed opinions about what I think is the best way to do things.
That doesn't mean it's the best way for YOU to do things.
We can still be friends and I will always love and support you if you opt for a c-section.
Same for an epidural.
Even for an unassisted childbirth. (although this does quite frighten me)
I want to see women educating themselves when it comes to birth. I want them to shop for a competent caregiver that has the same values they do. I want them to ask questions and demand informed consent. I want them to seek the best care possible and not just go with "whatever."
Because birth is a big deal.
So no, if I write about homebirth I'm not judging you for having your baby in the hospital. And if I write about how to manage un-medicated labor I'm not judging you for having an epidural.
I don't think I'm a big tough girl for delivering a baby un-medicated. I simply had the right education, the right caregiver, the right support system and most importantly the RIGHT CIRCUMSTANCES. I could have just as easily had a footling breech and needed a c-section like anyone else!
And that's why I can't judge. Your circumstances are so unique to you.
Please don't judge my efforts to help educate you and other women on what I've learned, seen and experienced. I'm here to help. I hope.
This is your body, your baby and your birth.
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